The whole issue was prompted by a discussion of Valentine's Day. Of course, it had to be this writer who started the conversation, so all those whose comments are included here will absolutely, positively remain anonymous. I do value my own life.
"What do you think you'll get from your Honey on Valentine's Day?" was my innocent question.
Wow! Did I get answers, and two very different sets of answers, which could be divided into subgroups and divided again into individual answers.
The great divide was between women with men and women without men. Following are some of the highlights of those conversations.




