Have a joyful travel season
The official holiday travel season has officially begun. Before you hit the road or take to the sky, it is important to plan ahead so the trip will be less stressful for your family. Holidays are a time for seeing family and friends, and for many this also means traveling long distances. Traveling can be a stressful event if children are involved. To help cut down on stress, proper planning can determine the difference between a joy to remember and a bad traveling experience.
with your children
The official holiday travel season has officially begun. Before you hit the road or take to the sky, it is important to plan ahead so the trip will be less stressful for your family. Holidays are a time for seeing family and friends, and for many this also means traveling long distances. Traveling can be a stressful event if children are involved. To help cut down on stress, proper planning can determine the difference between a joy to remember and a bad traveling experience.
The following ideas may help when traveling by vehicle to assist in making the adventure less hectic: Pack the car the night before. Early in the morning, carry your children from their beds to the car. They usually will snooze through the first gas station stop and allow you to get some serious mileage before breakfast. Have each child pack one bag and allow them to put what they want in it, but they must be responsible for carrying and keeping track of the contents.
For children who are still in car seats, put a diaper bag or duffel bag full of toys and books next to the seat where they can reach it easily. Make flexible seating assignments to keep peace in the car. Separate sides with a suitcase, box or bag in between the children. Be sure to stop often to stretch, run around and play games. Keep the music eclectic. It is best to keep the music neutral and compromise to find music everyone enjoys listening to. Give each child his or her own map so they can see the path they are taking and can highlight the route.
If getting to your holiday destination requires flying, keep these things in mind: Pack food and toys. Try to pack favorite toys and snacks your children enjoy, to make up for the lack of options. Put identification on your children. Sometimes in a crowded and chaotic airport, it is possible to lose sight of a child. Write your name or stash a business card inside each child’s travel pack or jacket. Inform your child to ask a police officer or uniformed airline employee for assistance and show the card, just in case of separation. With the new flying restrictions make sure you are up-todate on what the airline allows to be brought on board.
When traveling with family, it is important to be ready and willing to amuse children for a period of time. Bringing items to play with will assist in occupying them and aid in distractions. Travel packs can be filled with many items that your child enjoys playing with and are small and easy to pack. Some suggestions are: Crayons and/or colored pencils. A re-sealable plastic freezer bag makes an excellent carrying case. Be sure to bring white paper and coloring books. Stuffed animals are a necessity, but do not pack your child’s favorite. Suggest toys that may not be as special, just in case it is left behind. Electronic devices can entertain children for several hours in the vehicle, but remember children should have limited screen time. Have head phones for children so they can follow along with their favorite book or watch their favorite movie without involving everyone in the car.
Holidays should be enjoyed and taking away the added stresses will allow your family to have a pleasant holiday traveling season. For more info or to schedule a program locally about financial management, nutrition, health & wellness, parenting education, OHCE contact Janis Risley, at the OSU Cooperative Extension Service in Sequoyah County by phone at 918-775-4838 or e-mail at janis.risley@ okstate.edu.
