Ethan Miller
For 16-year-old Ethan Miller, spending his weekends cleaning graves at Cherokee cemeteries near Roland and Muldrow might not seem like a typical teenage pastime. But for Ethan, it’s become a meaningful way to connect with history, honor the past, and inspire others to give back.
For 16-year-old Ethan Miller, spending his weekends cleaning graves at Cherokee cemeteries near Roland and Muldrow might not seem like a typical teenage pastime. But for Ethan, it’s become a meaningful way to connect with history, honor the past, and inspire others to give back.
“It all started with a TikTok video,” Ethan admits with a grin. “I follow this creator who cleans old cemeteries and shares stories about the people buried there. I thought, ‘That’s something I could do to help, too.’” The TikTok creator, who focuses on preserving forgotten graveyards, sparked something in Ethan—a desire to make a difference close to home. With a rake, soft brushes, and buckets of water in hand, Ethan began visiting a few Cherokee cemeteries near Roland and Muldrow during November, determined to restore dignity to the weathered headstones.
“A lot of them were covered in moss, dirt, or had leaves piled all over them,” Ethan says. “Some looked like they hadn’t been touched in years. I just thought about the families who came before us, and I wanted to show respect.”
Ethan spends hours carefully cleaning the graves, gently scrubbing markers to make names and dates readable again. He says he works quietly, imagining the stories behind the names.
“I might not know them, but they mattered. They were someone’s parents, kids, friends. They’re part of our history.”
His efforts haven’t gone unnoticed. Some local families who spotted him working shared their gratitude, offering snacks, water, and a simple “thank you.”
“My grandma was so proud when I told her what I was doing,” Ethan shares. “She taught me how important it is to care for our elders, and I guess this is another way to do that.”
Beyond the physical work, Ethan hopes his actions encourage others, especially younger people, to care for cemeteries and reconnect with Cherokee traditions.
“It’s not about getting credit or going viral like the guy on TikTok,” he says with a laugh. “It’s about taking time to do something that matters.”
As he prepares to return to more cemeteries in the coming months, Ethan reflects on how the simple act of grave cleaning has impacted him.
“It’s peaceful out there. You feel connected to something bigger, like you’re part of keeping the past alive,” he says.
And whether or not his work ends up on social media, Ethan knows his quiet efforts are leaving a lasting mark.
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